First of all, I want to express my sincere thanks to each of you for the love and support you show each other. I know many of you are as concerned as I am about Tammie (one of our wonderful members) and her special guide dog, Leska (who always attends our meetings with Tammie). I have an update for you--and it's not good news. Tammie found out early this week that Leska has a fast-growing malignant tumor in her throat. Because of its location, it's probably inoperable. I have grown to absolutely love both Tammie and Leska--and I know you have, too. Tammie, our hearts go out to you during this painfully, difficult time.
I also want to thank you (again and again) for the respect you show each other during our meetings. Our meeting is a safe zone--a place where you can confidently share your feelings, your struggles, your successes, and know that we all understand and care! I have especially enjoyed the comments that have been written in our "Gold Medal" book. I can't wait to get my own personal copy of it so I can reread each and every entry! YOU inspire me--and each other. Thank you for being such amazingly wonderful role models.
Highlights from this week's meeting:
I definitely found this meeting to be extremely helpful. I know, from some of the comments that were shared, it's a topic that many (most) members relate to--and need help with. There was a time when I turned to food for ANY reason. That's why I laughed when I read the following poem (it sounded a little too familiar).
Who's Hungry by Judy Christiansen
I eat when I'm angry.I eat when I'm sad.
I eat when I'm tired.
I eat when I'm glad.
I eat between meals.
I eat bedtime snacks.
I eat from fine china
Or from paper sacks.
I eat sitting down.
I eat on the run.
I eat when I read.
I eat just for fun.
I eat when I'm pressured.
I eat to relax.
I eat when it's time
To pay income tax.
I eat while I'm cooking.
I eat at mealtime.
Now this question you ask
(interrupting my rhyme)--
Do I eat when I'm hungry?
I really can't say . . .
I do not recall
Ever getting that way!
I hope you were able to complete your "Reframing" Tool for Living worksheet to figure out how, when facing emotional eating "situations," YOU can manage your feelings more appropriately. If you hear yourself saying things like, "I'm a stress eater," or "I'm an emotional eater," STOP! Don't give yourself permission to continue that type of behavior. Instead, you might say something like, "When I'm stressed, I like to ______ to help me relax." Fill in the blank with a solution (other than eating) that can really help you relieve stress (without creating other issues).
I'm so grateful to Weight Watchers for helping me make major changes with this part of my life! A bag of peanut M&Ms and/or Cheetos used to be my "solution" for almost everything. I'd eat peanut M&Ms and/or Cheetos to relieve stress (or so I thought), to provide comfort, for entertainment, etc. However, that behavior created many, many other issues/problems. When YOU recognize that you want to eat, but aren't physically hungry, be sure to ask yourself: "What am I really hungry for?"
Next week's meeting topic: "Making Meals and Snacks More Satisfying."
You won't want to miss our meeting this coming week. We'll be discussing how adding certain foods, colors and tableware to your meals and snacks can make them more physically and visually satisfying.
AWARDS!
So many of you earned 5-lb. stars this week. Others of you are SO close to getting another star. Just keep following the program. It REALLY works! We also had four wonderful women (Jan, Danielle, Daryl, and Grace) who earned their "16-week Stay & Succeed" awards. CONGRATULATIONS to each of you--you are definitely on your way to reaching your goals. Thank you all for being such great examples!
New members: We had five wonderful women join Weight Watchers on Tuesday evening and I can't wait for you to meet and get to know them--they're great! I'm personally looking forward to having them join our group.
Motivational Thought
"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them." - George Bernard ShawFinally, we'll be having our first "BRAVO" drawing at our meeting this week. I'm looking forward to it--hope you are, too.
Have a great weekend. See you soon.
Debra


